The Polaris Effect
In an era when people seek balance and deeper connections in their lives, few figures stand out like Iren Polaris. A psychologist, psychotherapist, gestalt therapist, parapsychologist, Reiki master, and life coach, Iren has committed over 20 years to understanding the intricacies of the human psyche, spirituality, and esoteric practices. Her visionary approach has helped over 3,000 women heal, rediscover themselves, and transform their lives.
Iren is the founder of both Polaris Academy and the Polaris Happiness Retreat, a rejuvenating sanctuary that offers participants a profound journey to “reboot” their minds, bodies, and spirits. A key element of her work is “ParaPsychoMagic,” an innovative blend of psychotherapy, parapsychology, and mysticism that addresses both soul and body healing needs. She also created impactful programs, including “Woman. Awakening”, “Ascension”, and “Parapsychomagic,” each offering a unique path to self-awareness and spiritual growth.
1. Iren, you’ve dedicated most of your life to psychotherapy, parapsychology, and esoteric studies. Could you share what first inspired you to explore these areas, especially the mystical aspects?
My journey didn’t begin with a fantastical event—no aliens handing me an ancient manuscript. Instead, it was rooted in deeply human experiences of tragedy and resilience. A series of life-altering events left my health, marriage, finances, and personal stability in ruins. I also lost my mother in a tragic accident. It felt as though everything I knew had collapsed.
At one point, during a critical moment before surgery, my doctor took me to the rooftop to see the sun. I thought it might be the last time I would see sunlight. Standing there, I promised myself that if I survived, I would dedicate my life to finding meaning and transforming my pain into something that could help others.
Recovery was a long process. For years, I endured physical pain and emotional collapse, but slowly I began to rebuild. Initially, I asked, "Why me?" but later realised the question should be, "What for?" This shift in perspective became the foundation of my journey into psychotherapy, esotericism, and mystical studies.
I travelled to over 120 countries, searching for healing and spiritual wisdom in places like Costa Rica, Bhutan, Nepal, and China. My goal was to create a healing approach that was effective, accessible, and holistic. This led me to develop ParaPsychoMagic, a method combining psychology and ancient spiritual practices to heal the body and soul.
2. “ParaPsychoMagic” is a term you coined. Can you explain what it entails and how it differs from traditional psychotherapy or spiritual practices?
From a young age, I dreamed of a “magic wand” to instantly heal my mother, who lived with a serious heart condition. Later, my own health crises taught me that healing comes from within and that our bodies and minds are deeply interconnected. Illness, I learned, is not always an enemy; it can be a message or a guide, often speaking for neglected parts of ourselves.
ParaPsychoMagic integrates ancient practices like Taoist and Kabbalistic sciences with modern psychology, bioenergy, and parapsychology. What makes it unique is its multi-level approach to healing:
Personal Trauma: Addressing emotional wounds from this life.
Epigenetic Trauma: Healing inherited patterns from conception to birth.
Ancestral Trauma: Resolving pain passed down genetically.
Karmic Trauma: Clearing imprints from past lives.
This method doesn’t just remove symptoms—it restores balance and happiness by addressing the root causes. It’s a tool for healing and transformation, helping people reconnect with their true selves
3. The Polaris Happiness Retreat is described as a space for deep healing and rejuvenation. Could you tell us more about what participants experience and what makes this retreat unique?
The Polaris Happiness Retreat was inspired by my personal healing journey. Many retreats I attended were either too gentle, focusing on rest and yoga, or required plant medicines like ayahuasca, which aren’t for everyone. I wanted to create a retreat where participants could undergo profound transformation in just seven days, without substances or invasive methods.
The retreat is an “energy theatre,” a space I purify and fortify with high-frequency energy. This environment acts as a sacred operating room for the soul, enabling deep healing. The process includes an energetic reset to clear blockages and infuse participants with high-vibrational energy.
Every detail, from the serene villa setting to the nourishing meals, supports the healing process. The retreat is designed to help people achieve lasting happiness and inner harmony, enabling them to return home as renewed versions of themselves.
4. You’ve helped thousands of women transform their lives, especially after difficult events like divorce. What are some common struggles they face, and how do your methods assist them?
People often seek my help during moments of crisis, whether it’s divorce, illness, or when their lives feel like they’re falling apart. These painful moments hold the potential for incredible growth. Through my methods, I guide people to transform their pain into strength.
Healing is the key to creating a new identity rooted in purpose and self-awareness. As people heal, they begin to attract the right opportunities and relationships, reshaping their lives in meaningful ways. It’s not just recovery—it’s a rebirth.
Watching someone turn their suffering into a foundation for a brighter future is one of the most rewarding aspects of my work.
5. The concept of “pure energy” and “rebooting” is central to your retreat philosophy. What does this mean to you, and how do you help people achieve it?
Our happiness, health, and vitality depend on how energy flows within us. Blockages and negative energy can leave us drained, while pure, free-flowing energy allows us to thrive. At the retreats, we guide participants to reset their energy systems, returning to a “zero point” where everything is cleared and refreshed.
Pure energy is essentially high-vibration energy, which is directly linked to emotions. Focusing on emotions, rather than thoughts, is key to raising vibration. The retreats create a safe, energised space where participants can achieve deep transformation in a short time. They leave feeling recharged and ready to embrace life with renewed vigour.
6. Your programmes, “Woman. Awakening,” “Ascension,” and “Parapsychomagic,” each sound fascinating. Could you tell us about their intentions and what participants can expect?
“Woman. Awakening” is designed to help women rediscover their feminine energy, embrace their inner power, and connect with their unique frequency. It’s about healing, empowerment, and regaining control over one’s energy.
“Ascension” focuses on self-healing through the use of cosmic codes—symbols, sounds, and energetic patterns that unlock transformation.
“Parapsychomagic” is a year-long programme that teaches participants to heal themselves and others. It addresses trauma across personal, epigenetic, ancestral, and karmic levels, equipping graduates with tools for profound, multi-dimensional healing.
Each programme is a journey of self-awareness and transformation, empowering participants to unlock their full potential.
7. You work across disciplines, from psychology to parapsychology, Reiki, and life coaching. How do you integrate these diverse approaches in your sessions?
ParaPsychoMagic combines multiple disciplines, including psychology, bioenergetics, hypnosis, and regressology, into a cohesive methodology. This integration allows me to address both past traumas and future goals, balancing healing with forward-looking coaching.
Healing clears emotional and energetic blocks, while coaching provides the structure to move towards a fulfilling future. This blend enables clients to overcome challenges and create lives filled with purpose and happiness.
8. In a world often sceptical of non-traditional healing, how do you address misconceptions about your methods?
Self-healing is an innate ability we all possess, though many of us have forgotten it. Since the 1980s, pharmaceutical industries have marginalised alternative medicine, leaving people disconnected from their natural healing powers. My work helps people reclaim this ability by providing safe, effective methods to guide their healing journey.
Healing isn’t about dependency—it’s about empowerment. More people are now embracing the responsibility of creating their own happiness and well-being. My role is to remind them of their inner strength and provide tools for lasting transformation.
